Yotsuyu so far is the only person to "become" a Primal that doesn't have the Echo, real or artificial. That she seems to still have complete control of herself is what makes it so strange. That said it doesn't seem like merely summoning the Primal does an immediate tempering, this does apparently happen with the Sylphs but then Ga Bu summoned Titan (without meaning too mind) and there is some implication that he isn't temempered, just...well, really not in the best place mentally.
I have my own theories for some of this myself, just gonna spoiler box incase I rambal on.
So for the Sylphs I think the Ascians taught them a slightly different varient of the summoning process that would ensure whoever uses it is auto-tempered. We know Ramuh only does it if the one in question wants it and this would be a good way for the Ascians to get the ball rolling. It could also be explained that they don't do this for all the beast tribes by saying it takes more aether and/or faith for the ritual that auto-tempers, most of other beast tribes don't quite need that for the Ascians plans to work.
As for tempering and wrapping around back to Yotsuyu, we know that its the primal forcing their aether, and thus will, onto the victims...but what if the victim actually has the stronger will? We've seen with Bahamut and Phoenix thats its possible for a primal to temper another, and we know from quite a few primals that have tried to temper the WoL that Hydaelyn prevents it and presumbably so does Zodiark for the Ascians. But those two are truly Gods from everything we know, above all the Primals. They would have greater will than any of them could.
But then comes the artifical Echo...is it truly the Echo though, that does it? Or was Zenos's will actually greater than Shinryu's? Might Fordola's will be greater than Lakshmi? Would Yotsuyu, one with neither a natural or artifical Echo, have a greater will than a primal powered by the "faith" of one person? It matters not for Elidibus's goals as she died before he could even know if she kept her will unlike what he told Asahi, but its possible that much like how mortals can defeat the primals, a mortal's will could triumph the primal's on and prevent the tempering, even reversing it.
And then wrapping around back to the Ascians being the ones to teach the tribes and others how to summon, we know from the SMN storyline that we keep learning more and more about it. Is it possible that there is a way, perhaps before Ascian involment, to summon a being that WON'T try and brainwash people? That might even truly be that being, rather than one prone to malice, hate, and destruction? One that may even draw upon much less aether to the point it isn't a danger to Hydaelyn? Or am I just imagining of ways for SE to add in big time summoning for the good of Hydaelyn rather than the bad or at best nuetral. 4 in the morning rambal over.