Quote Originally Posted by Iscah View Post
But if someone was actually targeting me to look up (as seems to be the case in the screenshot) and going under my skirt? That intentional, and I don't see it as okay. It would be different if you know the person and you know they won't mind, but it's not nice to do it to a stranger.
The problem here is what I said. You won't know whether it was on purpose or not until that person either types something related to that (can constitute harassment depending on what is said, since at that point it IS specifically aimed at the people behind the screen) or make a post like this...which is the same, specifically aimed towards the players.

Quote Originally Posted by Iscah View Post
Maybe you can just separate it entirely and you think it's funny, but for me...
I find it neither funny nor a problem. But it is not my place to tell others what they should think, and I never said otherwise.

As I said, the issue with your post that I had was entirely in how you implied it should become a "social norm". People have varying sensitivities. There are things for which I am oversensitive. But I realize that it's "just me" and I try to adapt, instead of saying that others should adapt to me. Because it's not a problem, just something I make a problem of. Same here. You make a problem where there is none. It is a problem for you and I do not deny you...but at large...it is not. You can adapt to it. You shouldn't expect others to adapt to it. That's all.

Consider what I wrote a "food for thought". If it won't change your stance?! Oh well. If it will?! It'll be easier for you.