Thank you both, (or all by the time I post this, LOL).
My issue with dungeons/grouping is this:
Due to limited play time, DPS queues are killing me.
Due to Dbag players spewing vitriol on healers/tanks when a death/wipe is the DPS’ fault, is killing me.
And judging by the Healer Horror stories thread in the Healer Role forums, this is still alive and thriving here in FFXIV. Been dealing with this for 20 years of MMO gaming as a Healer and Tank, and just don’t want to do so anymore.
I guess the answer to that is find a good FC, and at some point, when I feel better about my ability to contribute, I probably will.
Well, I guess I’ll just keep on keeping on and see where I end up