Ok so aparantly some of my post was misconstrued. Here are the following points I was trying to make.

1. Male outfits as a whole need to start being more masculine to balance out all the dress like gear we've gotten over the years. (especially for healers)
2. Devs need to grow up and stop hiding from the male form. Wanting this isn't "petty" or "culturally different" if any other company were to do this they wouldn't be getting the pass that SE is getting.