I never cared about things like “privacy” or “size” cause... I just buy the whole corner around a large (with gf or friends)
When you actually own the area aetheryte and MB you don’t care about problems like that
Lavender Bed We have 31 and 33 (our personal houses)
Shirogane We have 58, 59 and 60 (personal FC house and friends)
The feeling is great