I understand your grief OP but all of this is just solved by making your own PF with "duplicates" allowed. Maybe you don't want to bother with that or it seems like too much of a drag to start your own when there's already 5-6 ex/savage parties in PF but really, that's all you need to do.


Now if you were to tell me that every time you start your own PF, you have people in your party telling you or trying to coerce you into having non-duplicates, it might add weight your argument.