Sorry if this sounds rude but,
You may not be one for shouting, but by being on your server, you'll get the attention of your server only. Not the other 17 worlds residents who view these forums.

I wish you luck in your search. My best advice is if you don't want to shout, try and join some soul bind parties, many of the times they are organised and the majority made up from a single LS. Party with them and ask if they are recruiting.

p.s.
The LS I belong to has reformed at least 3 times, mostly do with member lists filled with inactive players.
So you being an off again on again player, when that time comes for you to be "off" think about dropping the shell and saving the LS leader a headache until SE patches in LS managment tools.