Quote Originally Posted by Iscah View Post
I suspect it may not be possible for them to give us a choice
That is factually incorrect. You are most likely correct about the system's current situation and why they haven't implemented it with a choice currently, but absolutely nothing in this game is set in stone. The reason they haven't done anything more sophisticated (or at the very least, user friendly...) is likely because it would require a systematic change. They saw the need to address the issue but somewhere along the chain of decision makers someone put their foot down and said it wasn't important enough to invest that much time in it.
It's possible to give us a choice, just like how it's possible to make those two dungeons into solo instances. But for reasons that are beyond us, and likely many of us will disagree with, they chose not to.