I don't disagree in fact like i replied to you in another thread i have been advocating a mix of instanced and non instanced for sometime now but honestly they are too stubborn and will just continue to add wards which fixes nothing.
Honestly at this point perhaps they should just make a public statement that they have really messed up with the housing and apologize but they will no longer work on housing.
It will be frustrating but players may eventually get over it. Right now they dangle a carrot in front of us with hopes and only to be disappointed/frustrated, etc...