FC house, required 4 ppl, twinks allowed?

[-Lilia-]

If I hear a bunch of straight people using a gay term in another way, the first thing I’m going to do is evaluate my safety. Often they use our words in aggressive manners.

Oh my god. Okay I'm only going to feed into your drama this one and final time - and this is coming from another GAY man. You are talking as if you're speaking for all straight people using that term in an "aggressive" manner. As I've said it doesn't matter what we are, if you're a nice person that's all that matters. NOT all straight people are like that, idk what kind of experiences you've had and I'm not attacking you but you need to reevaluate your outlook if you're this sensitive to something as little as what's been blown out of proportion. From the sounds of it you're making that judgement on ALL straight people.

[-Lilia-]

I admit when I first read the OP's title. I thought it was to do with gay people too! haha as I have not heard the gamer term for the word previously. But even before people were explaining the term! I still did not get offended. Even if that was said in the gay term way. It's not even an offensive word to us? We have terms like twink, bear, jock. Bear being larger, hairier man who projects an image of rugged masculinity. As said Twink being the flamboyant hairless young male. None of these terms are offensive, they are just labels in the gay culture. It's different if everyone in this thread were taking the piss out of twinks or excluding any gay person who isn't considered a twink. But the OP was not even referring anything to do with homosexuals so get over it you're just being a drama queen and not in a good way. You need to relax. You're safe here.

You talk about "evaluating" your safety. No one can touch you here. And NO ONE is trying to be offensive.

[HyoMinPark]

I still don’t agree with you at all. I think these kinds of terms come off as slurs, because of where the word comes from. If I hear a bunch of straight people using a gay term in another way, the first thing I’m going to do is evaluate my safety. Often they use our words in aggressive manners.

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....wut

As a straight person, I’ve never even heard of this word. But please tell me more about how I use “your words” in “aggressive manners”.

[Texa]

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