@Emstidor

"a lot more common than you realize" - Yes. I guess I am stuck in another time. What I perceive as helping, seems to be generally perceived these days as being rude. Unfortunate as it is, it's not my original intention.

@Bobs

I'm not hostile to advice. It'd be pretty hypocritical if I was, wouldn't it? :P And if anything, this whole thread proves you right.