Or to stop taking mmos like an irl job, where you have to optimize everything, crushing everything in your path to that end, without caring of whose tossed aside feels like in your search of always more less time wasted, more profits and more first performance place. I see enough of this s**t at work to want to see it as well in my games.

You know something is not right when you stop bringing your rdm's "utility" in raids because you feel that regular healers have a bad habit to let you do all the rez's work when you are here, so that they can concentrate on their awesome dps while you are thrown in a state of fear to be labbelled as "grey" after getting out of mana because of all the ressurections. Or when you are asking yourself "should i really use this buff that make my team mates dps goes up but not mine ? My dps will look better compared to theirs in the raid's fflogs front page if i don't use it that often".