I have played characters of both genders, As I healer I get the most comms doesn't matter gender. They are all average looking poorly glamoured/ or not glamoured characters. The male is a crafting alt for HW and was a race to 60 just for crafting. His comms as sch: 279. Female crafting alt as a tank that made it to level 70 drk: 563 comms and is a clone of my main in looks and gear. My main character female played since launch of ARR. Most comms come from healing again though I only started tanking mid HW with fewest comms on dps. Main char comms: 4922. As for giving out comms, It is based on who made the content run the smoothest and I don't give a comm every time. End level needs to stand out for the comm. If I am in leveling with green leafs, those that do well or listen to advice get the comm. Sadly we can only give 1 comm as some times more players stand out or try hard to learn. I comm based on skill I guess you could say and could careless what gender or glamours.