Quote Originally Posted by Stabby-Chan View Post
Have you ever thought of the idea that perhaps it may not be all you, but the attitude and expectation of the server you are in?
What you can do is try a different server with a new character and check out the people there... Scout around a bit.
Healing isn't the easiest job out there...

If people start using abusive language towards you, report them.
You shouldn't have to deal with that in any game.

Also, you have the option to leave the map as well to get away from the abusive language.
Sure, I like to finish what I start. However, if people prove to me that they do not deserve my presence by treating me in sub-human format...
I leave and let them sweat a bit.

The 30 minutes away helps cool me down too...
Just do not let the community ruin the game for you.
Uh DF is cross-world.
Changing servers won't change anything.