Sad experiences of a newbie

[Squintina]

If you want to do that, it's a perfectly valid decision and I wish you the best.

But here's another suggestion Transfer to Faerie, come join the FC I'm in. We'll do dungeon runs together and no one will be vicious I promise.

[Naraku_Diabolos]

Have you casted Regen on the Tank as well as anyone else? Regen helps a lot with healing over time so you do not have to heal as much. Healing was way trickier for me before 4.0 because you had to constantly switch between Cleric Stance for damaging and then taking it off for healing.

EDIT: I'm autistic, so I learn at a different pace. Yet I actually adapted pretty well for every job. I'm just at home more playing NIN. After running Titan EX as WHM, I got the hang of it pretty quickly. ALWAYS keep Regen up on your party members.