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    Player AppleJinx's Avatar
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    Apple Jinx
    World
    Ultros
    Main Class
    Dragoon Lv 80
    in almost every dungeon??? Yeah okay I am almost certain that you are not telling the whole story here
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    Alleo's Avatar
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    Light Khah
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    Moogle
    Main Class
    Arcanist Lv 91
    I am a bit late to this topic but still going to post my thoughts.

    I am always a bit skeptic about such topics. I remember one where someone posted in defence for their wife and how she was threated only to have her join the discussion and showing everyone how she really was and that it was her fault. I am not saying that it was the fault of the OP but I am also not sure that only the others can be blamed for this situation.

    First if something like that happens quite often and with random different players, then the person is either really unlucky or maybe its partly their fault too. Being rude is never good, no matter if they are right about the topic or not, but its quite telling if that happens a lot.

    Maybe they did not even say it in a rude way but the OP took it wrong because he might have never been called out like that in other games? Sometimes you can take this the wrong way and maybe those people did just post it a bit more bluntly. Maybe they were just plainly mean or maybe there is a problem with the language barrier (not everyone has english a a main language) so maybe the intend was misunderstood. We will never know since we dont have a screenshot of these chats.

    The OP did post that it was partly his DPS but also wrote that they said: Too little healing. This kinda makes it sound more like that he either did not manage to keep the people alive or maybe he just stood around, did not DPS even though he had the time but also did not heal enough thus letting them drop too low. Again this is just speculation but saying "little healing" makes it sound like even the main part of the job was not done right.

    My advice on that:

    Try not to take such things personally. I speek from experience since I considered quitting this game too after that one early dungeon experience. We were in the mine with a toxic player where I as a DD was healing, tanking with my egi and DPSing since we were without a healer and the tank could not survive long without heals, yet the one DD was pissed that we wiped at the end boss. x) Which was honestly no wonder because we did him wrong. I took this as an attack against myself even though I did try my best at that moment and he himself was also not better. That one little thing nearly let me stop playing this game. So dont take things like that personal. Think about the comments even if they are rude and try to see if its truly on your side or if this just a jerk. If they are way too rude then report them. Otherwise if you always just get negative comments one should condsider that they are the problem.

    I had one player from my former FC complaining that they are kicked from a lot of dungeons...well she was someone that often got carriered by us if we helped her because she was not able to do the basics of her monk (she used like one or two skills)..we tried to give her advice but she never took it and thus we barely took her with us on extreme farms. Instead of trying to get better she threw some insults to us and left the FC...it truly was no great loss.
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    Last edited by Alleo; 01-25-2018 at 07:41 PM.

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