Why the hate with endgame fights?

[Metalwrath]

The hate has always been there.It came back in ARR when people who took raiding too seriously in other games migrated to FF14 and tried to dictate their ways on the entire FF community.
Back with Titan HM you had constant rages and people flaming each other.Warriors got so much hate at this time too.It was basically pld or gfto.
Thornmarch extreme was also very toxic.As was Steps of Faith.List goes on and on.
In heavensward i think it was maybe the most cancerous stage with alex Savage to such an extent with tank dps that SE changed the way vit worked for tanks.
Nidhogg normal and extreme was really hateful too.Still is to be honest.

Best advice i can give you is to do content with FC.

[Sorciechan]

^This. I don't think I started experiencing it in ARR until they started adding ilvls, for me. For the record, I don't hate endgame or hard fights (don't like when they are nerfed, ether), but I also don't like ppl making it harder to play a game by bringing the hate. The best fight I remember having was a storymode Garuda. The group I was in died 2 twice, but we were learning. We even discussed how Garuda was fighting and what was and wasn't working. We got her on the third try. The only other time I felt so satisfied was when I was raiding a few years back with a friendly static.

Now? I'm lucky to pass new released content without someone leaving before making it past the first boss. Or, saying someone sucks and spouting nums to prove it. Or, blaming dps for failing a fight, when the real reason was ppl dropping like flies for getting killed to mechanics (cause heaven forbid you stop dpsing to move a few inches).