tl;dr: Back to FFXIV after a long break. Joining friends to build a raid rosters. I "have to" play melee DPS, I'm old/rusty and even though my reflexes are still ok, I can easily'ish lose track of my rotation when action gets tense.

What melee dps should I play? in other terms, what melee dps is more forgiving, lets you put in decent'ish dps and/or utility even with the occasionnal fuck up ?

Been reading a lot since yesterday, but it seems like everyone has a different take on this. DRG, NIN, SAM ? No one seems to agree...