Quote Originally Posted by Miste View Post
Thing is most of the time being nice doesn't seem to work either....at least in my experience. I get told off even if I sugar coat and try to type in the most neutral/positive way possible.

So uh I am not sure why you think people have not tried "being nice"? I mean it isn't like a revolutionary concept or anything.
Because being nice and tell them how they can approve is harrasment.