I have to say I feel really lucky when I read posts like these. I have leveled all three tanks to 70, mostly through MSQ and duty finder, and I have not found such horrible people I see described here who will never listen to advice and will call you things just for trying to help.

I can see when someone is playing poorly, like everybody else I guess. Do I say something when I see it? Well, it depends: if it is a healer or dps I will say nothing at all since I lack the knowledge to even try to help. If it is the tank it depends: if they are doing it so bad that we might probably fail the duty then I try to help, and the key thing here is how you try to help.

First I ask: "[name], I have all 3 tanks lvl 70, I can give you some advice if you want ;-)"

Most of the times the answer is "Yes, please" because, you know what? They are struggling and they know it.

However if I went with my "advice" like this: "Oh my god, tank, agro is all over the place, get it together, use flash", most of the time the answer would be something along the lines of "f... you" because, let's be honest, I would only be helping to get the guy more anxious than he probably is alreday, and that does not help.

The thing is, I have seen the second version of the "help" much more often than the first one, so maybe the problem is not so much that people don't want to learn how to play, but that some other people need to learn how to properly lay a helping hand in the first place.

And that's my two cents on the topic. Happy new year!!