Quote Originally Posted by Tanathya View Post
Not interested in teaching someone who doesn't want to learn.
I think one of the primary dilemmas is that many people assume that if they are doing the mechanics (ergo, alive at the end of the fight or when the party wipes) then they aren't messing up or holding the group back. Either that or, like you're alluding to, they don't really care.

Personally, part of why I play games is to get better - be it better gear, role performance or whatever else. I'm not overly competitive, but I care about my performance. There are plenty of other reasons to play this game, but if you're in challenging content, I would assume you have a similar mindset. It amazes me how often I am completely wrong about that.