I don't think I can read another of these threads but my thoughts are esentially...

*I perform my role/all relavent mechanics, we still wipe*

Either I give advice to the underperforming/seemingly confused party members and get called an elitist because I don't pay their sub/am not their mom/etc. OR I don't give advice and get called an elitist because I am expecting them to have some knowledge of the content they've chosen to run.

I guess I'm an elitist since literally anything I do or don't do means I am an elitist. /shrug