Maybe what we need,is dedicated world (for RP....joke) depending what kind of community you want, for exemple:
Sephiroth world:"by entering this world,you agree to enter in an environement that will ask you lot of commitment,and we are not responsible for any harassment due to performance"
Chocobo world:" by entering this world you agree to enter in an environement where people do no want to be harassed over player performance,anyone violating this rule can be sentanced to ban"

Like this,people who wants good level go to hardmode world,and people who want to play chill go to the chill one,everyone is happy.