The problem is, the current fight club rules tends to have most people keep mum about these things for fear of getting into trouble over it. If someone asks me how they are doing in a DF/PF pug, I certainly wouldn't ever paste anything into chat, the best I can do is give them a rough answer and go from there.
As this very thread demonstrates, it's almost the norm for many people to struggle with showing a fair degree of respect and courtesy to their fellow players when things aren't going well. That's not a parsing problem, neither is it an FFXIV issue. It's just how things seem to be with the lack of community and camaraderie that modern internet games have. 'Why should I be nice to that moron when I'm never even going to see them again' etc. It's a sad state of affairs imho =(