This is why this game should'nt get a parse

[spagthetapdancer]

Does this apply to people uploading screenshots of you ingame? What about a video of a fight where you are involved in? Or if you join a group with a streamer?
Privacy concerns are all well and good for certain things, but this isn't one of them. None of your real life information is included. If you want to opt out, verify your character on the website and change the settings. Rather than demanding no-one else can view statistics on a website.

good question, and the sort that is best addressed per example.
Screenshots of me in-game: I don't mind this because the only information being portrayed is my appearance. unless someone goes through the absurd amount of work necessary to assemble a stop-go animation style slide show, it does not pose a risk to my privacy to have my mere appearance given. I am willing to allow anyone that happens to be in my vicinity to screenshot me without my notice.
Video of a fight I'm involved in: hmm....this is a toughie. I'd really prefer they didn't unless I was told about it.
Stream Runs: I join groups with streamers in other games all the time, volunteering to do so. I surf dark souls 3 streams for streamers to co-op with. I consider such a thing consentual as long as everyone knows ahead of time. Hell, to stream regularly is something I'd like to do someday myself.

Also, can I really log into FFLogs and set it so that data on me is excluded from their listings? if so, good on them and that'd ease my concerns a good deal.

[jameseoakes]

Also, can I really log into FFLogs and set it so that data on me is excluded from their listings? if so, good on them and that'd ease my concerns a good deal.

They have a system where you can claim you character and you can set your logs to hidden, though I am strongly of the opinion it should be default hidden have to be set to visible.

https://www.fflogs.com/help/hidingcharacters/

[spagthetapdancer]

They have a system where you can claim you character and you can set your logs to hidden,

https://www.fflogs.com/help/hidingcharacters/

excellent. I prefer opt in to opt out but I guess this will have to do ^_^.

[HaroldSaxon]

Those should all be done with the consent of those involved, or names need to be hidden.

I didn't consent to you quoting my post. By your argument, you should have asked for consent.