Man, like re-reading what that guy said: Good for him for not being willing to bang his head against a wall for two hours before politely suggesting a disband. The guy values his time, he knows his own self-worth, and he wants to get it done. This is a trait I value in human beings: Knowing what he frickin' wants, and what he has to do to get there. We call people like that project Leaders, and they get shit done. Learn to be like him, OP, instead of fluttering like a leaf in his wake. You just spent twelve hours talking about this guy, and he probably doesn't even remember who you are. That's called crushing it, bro.