I recently changed from Shiva to Lich and am still not quite sure if it was the right decision. When I first logged in after transfering, I stood next to two male Miqo'tes who talked to each other in /say. One of them asked: "Can I lick you?" And the other one was like: "Oh well, I mean, sure." So, that's that, haha.
There seem to be a lot fun, goofy people on Lich, but most of them either speak English or French only (I'm from Germany), so I feel kinda... dunno, insecure? to interact with them since my English is def not the best. Luckily I found a nice German FC, so I'm quite happy about that.