im talking about the "im going to pwn tha NOOBS to pet my ego because i was killed by some douchebags too" mindset, nothing good can come from that
fortunately, as yoship presented the current plan for pvp this will not happen anyway
edit: also you cant compare it with aion really, there are 2 factions that cant even communicate with each other, in that kind of game players of the other faction just become "those damn asmos" and stop being other players in your eyes. with the ffxiv setting this isnt possible in the first place