I need advice on an FC matter

[Sakuraluna]

Honestly, it isn't fair considering the energy you all have put into this only to get nothing out, but if you've reached your breaking point, and others have reached their breaking points, it isn't healthy anymore. Don't keep trying to grapple with him. He's let you know he isn't there to work with you. Cut your losses and leave.

I might let him know in the next meeting that you're having some very real problems with his leadership and that if it doesn't change immediately you will take action, just so he isn't blindsided, then when that doesn't get him to change his tune, leave without another word. Blist him until he's ready to talk like a civil person if you have to. Start an ls for everyone you want to keep in touch with and if they choose to follow you then build a new fc or join an existing one with better leadership. Then put your energy into something that will benefit you and those around you rather than something that's just going to pull you down over time.