a simple request

[HyoMinPark]

first off i not thin skin i just tire of get advice more ill and then them leave when i not interest or get bad advice or them tried give advice at end of the dungeon and
second I not thin skins first off one best peice of advice i got was on my dark knight and it was how to hold agro which was have both darksider and guts turn on.

What are people supposed to do when you ignore their advice? Beg and plead for you to listen to them? Follow you around like a puppy spewing their advice over and over again? What do you want them to do?

“Someone gave me advice! Stop! I don’t like that!”
“Someone gave me advice, I ignored them, and then they left the instance! Rude!”

It’s like they’re damned if they do, damned if they don’t...

As for the tank advice, really? That’s the most basic advice that once should already know: if I’m tanking, I should probably use my tank stance. The DRK 30 quest actually stresses the importance of using Darkside, so, again, very basic and very given. If that’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever gotten in this game..... I’m sorry, I question that. Of course, with your opening post, it seems like anyone who tried to offer you anything more would have their head bitten off over it...if not just flat-out ignored, which is equally as disrespectful.

i come to play ffxiv to have fun i not really tried do any of end raids or anything i just want have fun and kind frustrating get advice.

So does everyone else. Some people don’t find it fun seeing someone play a job incorrect/gimp themselves, so they extend a helping hand. And then, you bite it off. Equally not as fun for them. Your enjoyment is not more important that another person’s when you’re doing group content. Sorry.

one my character play 4 to five difference jobs it hard remember set combo plus having adhd it doesn't help when people tried give me advice when i problem will miss a detail.

I understand that having ADHD has it’s own set of challenges, but please don’t use it as an excuse to not get better. I’m sorry, but that’s what it sounds like you’re doing.

some of my character don't even have shread of omega gear

You said yourself you only run dungeons, and no high-end raids. Omega gear is overkill for dungeons, so this is irrelevant. Just because you only run dungeons doesn’t mean that it’s okay to “be okay” with not improving your performance...

EDIT:

I left before he could give advice

I’m sorry, that makes you the rude person, not them.