DPS is the job of DPS.

[Reynhart]

Want to guess the response? "SHUT UP I KNOW MY JOB I'M A HEALER YOU'RE A BARD GO **** OFF SOMEWHERE ELSE"

That's why I mentionned :

If I meet someone new and willing to learn, I will adjust my pace to him

So yes, there are people that don't bother helping... and some of them are because they're tired of getting that as a response for so much as stating they did something wrong.

I'm not that discouraged...yet. And I'm sure I will get bored of the game itself before.