If it wasn't for bad luck, I'd have no luck at all, lol. The server I'm currently on is comprised primarily of a younger crowd trying to turn FFXIV into a dating sim. I'm trying to figure out which server to transfer to with a friend, and your FC sounds like exactly like what we're looking for. If you guys decide later that you can use a couple of forty-somethings who are just looking for people to play the game with without drama, let me know, I'll watch the thread. Oh well, at the very least, would you recommend Cactuar as a viable move in consideration of what we're trying to escape?