So...have do you make friends?

[stardrifter]

Best thing I can say is too just play and speak with people about the game as much as possible, we all have one thing in common and it's FF so it's a pretty good ice breaker.

On an another note, try not care so much what other people think. Don't take things so personally, silence doesn't mean they don't like you or are ignoring you.

I've joined multiple FC's over the years, some just weren't my style, I didn't mesh with the people, playtimes didn't match up, goals, many reasons. I just said thanks but no thanks and moved on. Nothing wrong with that. Now I'm part of a great group of people, talk on discord more than text chat. Just gotta keep trying and meeting people until something sticks


There's only one thing that's gonna help you with your anxiety and social awkwardness, besides meds, and that's putting yourself out there. start a pf for treasure maps or something, be assertive, ask if you can add people to your friends list. If they say no oh well big deal that's life.

Everyone has things that harder for them than it is for others, just means you have to work harder on those things and vice versa.
Meeting new people is tough, joining a group where everyone knows each other and you know no one is really tough, just like starting a job, or school, or whatever you kind of just have to do it.

This is coming from someone who yes had been diagnosed with depression and anxiety, took meds, was a social outcast growing up, scared of everything. At some point you have to be sick of feeling like that and just say **** it, like yourself and other will too, not everyone will, but the important ones will.