Built-in Parsers

[Lambdafish]

If someone makes a mistake, recover from it.

This is a very idealistic statement that has no bearing on actual scenario. Case in point:

I had to disband an O2S run the other day because the BLM was almost being outDPSed by the SCH and we kept hitting enrage. While it is group content, the rest of the group should not have to (if it is even possible) pick up the slack from that. We would have had no idea and kept beating at it without a parser. Oh, and this was weekly clear, and the BLM had the clear (presumably on another job) before you say that I'm not letting the BLM improve.

instead of letting hp stay low heal people up. Job is to heal so... heal.

everyone should take responsibility for a fight going south. as the point is to work as a team, not solo in a group.

This doesn't sound like you saying everyone is accountable, this is you saying that a DPS is not accountable for their poor DPS/repeated deaths, and it is the healer's job to compensate. Have a reality check, healers are not gods and they cannot be expected to carry beyond what the content allows. The point is to work EQUALLY as a team, an underperforming DPS is not working as part of the team.