Quote Originally Posted by Magnedeus View Post
I mostly tank and i only have one thing to say to healers. If you wanna just heal, just heal. If you just wanna heal and throw in some dps that's fine too. I don't judge. You do your thing, i do mine.
I usually do damage to help me heal or because I've got nothing else to do.

A lot of the healer/tank drama comes from people having different levels of experience/skill/commitment to the game and different ideas of what makes group content fun. Maybe a "mellow/casual" vs. "intense/serious" toggle in the DF UI would help?