If you're getting 1000-person queues on login and can never find a plot of land, maybe move to a lower pop server? If you're on one of the most populated servers in game, you should've seen this coming when Shirogane was announced.

Housing is a limited commodity. You can play on a high-pop server or you can have an easy time finding a plot of land, but you can't have both. I agree that more wards should be added, and there should be a limit to one house per service account. While these are reasonable requests, the salt over housing has become a joke.
You're joking, right? You realize that even the "low pop servers" had housing completely gone in less than 1 hour after the patch went live, right? You realize that a lot of people got stuck in 1,000+ player queues because they were hit with faulty launchers or 2002 Lobby Server errors (which, by the way, have nothing to do with your server of choice, nor your system but SE's systems), and that was the sole reason they were unable to get on faster? This system is atrocious, and SE should be ashamed of themselves to advertise Shirogane as a main attraction of an expansion when they knew that less than 20% of the active player base would ever be able to obtain such a thing.