Quote Originally Posted by Wintersandman View Post
the tank is being selfish if they don't want to stance dance.
So no it isn't always on the dps.
I never said the tank was doing their job right. Or that they weren't being selfish. I'm saying it's your responsibility not to pull aggro as a DPS regardless of the tank you have. If you pull, it's always on you as a dps. You can cry all you want about how bad your tank is. The fact is YOU are the one pulling aggro and all that it entails. And -again- if this game were a bit harder and the mobs killed you consistently, YOU would be the dps contributing the least compared to the dps properly managing their aggro. Which again means that YOU fail at your role which is to contribute as much DPS as you can in that group setting. (as opposed to how much you can in a striking dummy setting)

Don't get me wrong. If your tank is capping your dps because they aren't building proper enmity. By all means call them out. But don't blame them for your mismanagement of aggro. (I get it, it's frustrating, especially if the tank is being a douche. Still your fault though).

I also addressed the healer aggro point earlier in my initial post FYI