Quote Originally Posted by Wilford111 View Post
There were topics about dating and stuff like that, but when I look at girls' profiles, I can see that already dozens of guys were chatting with them, and I wondered why I should bother.

I'm not that social of a person, especially when I compare myself to other guys. What do I have to offer that other guys don't? Heck if I know. I feel so much like giving up. In this kind of fandom, I understand there are more guys than girls. I don't feel like I can compare to other guys. So what's the point in trying?
Coming from a girl who has posted on the EB thread a few times, actually if you're not a creep, you have a very strong fighting chance, lmao. Tons of guys replied to me each time. Very few of them treated me like a normal person and didn't just open up with the most groan inducing pick up lines/ thirsty messages. It's quality over quantity, my dude. And when it comes to individuality, there's no competition to speak of. You might actually be exactly what someone is looking for. Take that risk anyway, and try to find any common ground. I am strongly introverted myself and most social interactions are anxiety inducing, even outside of anything to do with relationships. You have to just keep putting yourself out there. Friendships happen slowly for people like ourselves, but there's one obvious path to guaranteeing they will never happen at all. With that said, I do think the only successful long term relationships are born from a foundation of friendship. Just focus on making good friends. :>