Quote Originally Posted by Wilford111 View Post
To the females who are saying that a relationship is something that develops naturally out of a normal friendship.... I mean no disrespect, but I feel like that's not how it works of you're a male, since is traditionally up to the guys to make that push to relationship status. So it would make sense if, in a female's perspective, it would seem like it just happens.

Please forgive me if I'm wrong, I really don't want to come across as rude or ignorant. This is just how I feel about the situation.
I can see what you mean (tradition)..however, I don't think its something a guy has to make any push.

If it is meant to be it will happen between both..mutually. Forcing or pushing anything, again is an instant turn off, no matter how long I've known the person. It should ideally work out on its own without either one really saying anything. My BF I met on FFXI 8 years ago that I mentioned earlier? He did not in the slightest give me the impression that he was in love with me, and he wasn't from the start (before speaking with me). I am sure he thought I was attractive, but he didn't push anything on me at all. He was "normal" as in, didn't hit on me, didn't try to push any feelings onto me, that is why I talked to him.

In the end we both kind of said...we are falling for each other, nearly the same night we both wanted to say the same thing to each other, we did, and then I dropped my life for him and moved to NYC, no regrets. It's all about just letting things flow naturally.