Defining the words "click" and "chemistry"...its what you have in common, likes and dislikes, attitudes about things, past history, spending time together. That takes time, a lot of it. There is no such thing as instant. Yes, people say there is but later, they realize that in a search for someone, they overlooked the very things that now come glaring through over time. Take your time. Forget about the buzz words, forget about relationship, be open, be friendly, be natural, be non demanding, don't be pushy, don't push anything. Years of experience here..it will happen but beware at the same time, enjoy friendships they are golden. “It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy relationships.”― Friedrich Nietzsche