Quote Originally Posted by Wilford111 View Post
To the females who are saying that a relationship is something that develops naturally out of a normal friendship.... I mean no disrespect, but I feel like that's not how it works of you're a male, since is traditionally up to the guys to make that push to relationship status. So it would make sense if, in a female's perspective, it would seem like it just happens.

Please forgive me if I'm wrong, I really don't want to come across as rude or ignorant. This is just how I feel about the situation.
This is fair (though not 100% of the time for sure) but I think you need to be willing to put yourself out there to meet people as friends or potential girlfriends. If you meet someone as a friend and want more with them then take the chance and ask.

I get that it won't happen entirely organically but chemistry is a thing. To be able to see that someone finds you attractive means you first have to believe that might be possible which brings us back around to confidence.