Quote Originally Posted by Wilford111 View Post
Recently, out of a sort of desperation I guess, I joined a dating forum for nerdy people who like anime and video games and stuff like that. I wanted to put myself out there as a single guy who is looking for a significant other. But the forum was just like any other forum I've ever been to. Just a community of people talking about stuff. There were topics about dating and stuff like that, but when I look at girls' profiles, I can see that already dozens of guys were chatting with them, and I wondered why I should bother..... I don't feel like I can compare to other guys. So what's the point in trying?
I have a problem with this right here. You need to think higher of yourself. So what if there's other guys trying? Don't think about them, think about you and what you think is your best quality and you never know that gilr may see something special in you. Don't give up. If YOU like that girl, don't give a fuck about what those other guys want. It's a competition, bruh and if you really cared for that girl and whatever future you see with her, you wouldn't and shouldn't give up so easy.