Is the vote kick system improperly implemented for how it's actually being used?

[Snow_Princess]

I do not like the vote system because people have a tendency of "deal with it" I had a tank stressing me out by not holding hate and talking too much damage and I was the one to be blamed because "only one monster" (it was 2, I even used a macro for both of them to get them off me and that was ignored for both) so I was struggling to heal myself and the tank and we had 2 wipes over the run, with me using dissipation twice.

So why are people free to play stress the healer and blame the healer for it because they can't see? maybe just make tanking easier? I don't know.

Today I had a leveling blm in vault with subpar gear (lot of NQ, and NQ gear performance is way below the displayed ilevel) the big though was having a NQ weapon. So my MP was stressed so i asked for manashift. I did not get it and they where lagging behind a bit (not connection, but not running to us, like they where doing something else while playing) So after the first boss I asked, do you know NQ weapons are very bad and that drop weapon or HQ is so much better. Said something of the likes of not caring because it was a leveling df. I said well I care because you are stressing my MP. He said something about relax more so I put up the vote to kick him because I was not going to carry someone with that kind of attitude, and it passed. I guess been too much to ask for a proper aoe rotation too like actually using thunder II and flare, but as said h acted like he was doing something else because "iot is only leveling" I shouldn't have to stress heal because someone is not caring.