It'd make more sense to divide the queue into two, one for big pulls and one for small pulls. And that just seems silly to me.

Only 2 people need to discuss big or small pulls and that's the tank and healer. If one is uncomfortable with big pulls just stick to the smaller ones. It's usually only a couple of minutes difference anyway if that.

Really though, should they just turn this into a single player game? Are people really this incapable to use the vote kick responsibly and work together to finish dungeons? Am I just super lucky and not encountering horrid abuses of vote kick all the time?