Yes, it goes both ways, which is why people should stop trying to shape the DF into whatever they want it. It's just DF. Just something that puts together a party.

You can decide on your own with the party you get to kick someone, but don't try to frame it like some unwritten rule that everybody, or even a majority, of the people should follow.

DF is just DF, if you expect anything other than "having a party", then you need to use PF.