When dps dont aoe should they just get kicked from the start?

[TouchandFeel]

If you don't want to be grouped with someone, that's your prerogative. But that's what the "Leave" feature is for. It's NOT what the "Kick" feature is for.

If multiple people in the group don't want the person that is not trying, that is precisely what vote kick is for. If it was just me and the rest of the group disagreed, then the vote kick would not go through and I would either accept the will of the group and just keep going or I would decide to leave.
It's a vote put forth that requires the agreement from a majority to go into action, unlike one person deciding that they want to not put in any effort and have everyone else pick up their slack.

Besides, as I said in the post that you selectively quoted from, I believe in communicating first and then if they respond rudely or tell you they don't care and everyone should just deal, then a vote kick may be warranted.

Above all else I believe in the good of the party over any one individual's self-focused desires. If that means sticking with a group that isn't very good but are trying and want to improve even when I know I could get a much faster and easier run with a better group, I will stay and do what I can to help. That also means not sitting idle when one person selfishly drags the group as a whole down because they just don't care.

We were put together as a group and should work together as a group for the good of the group. It is as simple as that.