This is an example of why I have never been able to fully invest myself into AST. I can't use parsers even if I wanted to since I play on console, and guessing who's hitting harder is sketchy, so I got into the habit of alternating who I feed cards to or to spread them if I have the option. Sometimes I hardly mess with them at all and just push my own DPS.

I didn't want to start drama or pick favorites. Plus, I could never gauge which was better; feed cards to the superior player, putting more pressure on them while leaving the other in the dust OR putting emphasis on the less powerful player to even the field and allow both to deal good damage.

Alternating and spreading just feels better. :/ .... But this is why I'm shelving AST as soon as my anima is done.
Shoot, the only reason AST is 70 is the Geomancer in the storyline. Give THAT job to me SE, I beg of you!