I mostly agree with this, my one (very situational) caveat being if I do a dungeon with my boyfriend tanking and the DPS don't seem super strong. I know he focuses on DPS, I know he'll pull big so I can shine with AoE and I would rather expand a Balance to buff his and my own damage (as it is at least reliable) than hope a DPS makes use of it.

I used to just throw enhanced Balances on him for bosses back in SB but then I got kicked from the Aery once with no warning by two DPS that I guess also queued together. They complained in party chat to him about me after they kicked me and he left them. I still hope their run just timed out. Lol.

Either way yeah in general this is just silly. There are times for it but not nearly enough to justify the amount I see it.