I didn't read the whole thread, so I apologize in advance if I repeat anything. However, I sympathize with long DPS queues, I really do. But those frustrated need to understand that the shorter queue times for tanks and healers is an incentive to level those classes and jobs. There is no disputing that these two roles carry a heavier responsibility, and as a result fewer players level them, and even fewer choose them as their main job.

You need to realize that the queue times are so long because SO many players main DPS jobs. Giving them an exp bonus would only bait the hook for even more DPS players. If you really want to help DPS queues, you need to toss on some plate armor, or robes and queue up as a tank or healer. This doesn't help level your own DPS job, but you're helping the community, and if more people did this, DPS queue times would go down, including your own.

I also want to echo that I never see DPS players consume food in dungeons. I mean they spent 20+ minutes in the queue, and then turn around and don't eat anything, throwing away ALL of that bonus exp! I really wouldn't be asking for exp bonuses in dungeons if you already are not using the bonuses the game provides for you.