What is a 'bad player'?

[Mikita]

Sorry but I find this hilarious, because it's so ridiculous I just can not understand why it happens and yet people and more often women always do this: They talk to some person, who turns out to be jerk and they know that the person is a jerk and still... they blame themselves. They have to be loved by everyone or life is not worth living.

Yes, we're kind of strange that way.

Of course I can't speak for everyone, but for many women social bonds and the feelings of others are very important.

Words can do much more damage than Ifrit's Hellfire.



To Mamba (OP),

It takes time to get past incidents like that -- I know.
But I hope that you have a good group of friends around you that will help to keep you going.

And of course the Blacklist is very useful as well. ^^